Notice what you like more than what you don't

"Where you place your attention about others determines their behavior. What do you do when the important people in your life do not do what you want them to do? Do you criticize them? Or do you just pause and decide to notice what you like more than what you don't like? This is a critical point and important to changing behavior: Focus on the behaviors that you like more than the behaviors you don't. This is one of the secrets to having great relationships. Noticing what you like encourages more of the behaviors you like to happen." -Dr. Amen